It’s that time of the year. Malls are packed with people as they try to get their Christmas shopping done. Whenever I go into the mall and I go in and out of the stores, I am reminded why I don’t like shopping and can’t understand why people are shopaholics. I only go to the mall when it is absolutely necessary.
Thankfully, my husband and I have finished our shopping. I have discovered that it’s easier and less stressful to find out what people want instead of trying to figure it out. My family and I ask each other what we want, make our lists and then pick one or two things from the lists. Everyone is happy because we get what we asked for as opposed to getting gifts we have no idea what to do with.
Don’t stress yourself out. Get a list of things the person might want or find out from someone who might know. For example, I ask my sister what I could get for our mother and she gives me suggestions. I did the same when she wanted to know what to get for my son. Doing it this way is a sure way of not spending endless hours in the mall trying to get something you think the person might like.
For kids you can ask their parents. If you have kids of your own, you should have an idea of what they like. With the new Star Wars movie out, some parents are probably getting Yoda (my favorite SW character) or R2-D2 or the action figures. I just visited the Toys R Us site and they already have lots of items from The Force Awakens. I can imagine how busy the stores are. My husband and I are weaning our son off of toys and the action figures. He is reading more now so I suggested to my sister that she could get books for him. I also suggested getting a journal as he likes to write stories or a drawing book because he likes to draw. However, as a surprise and a treat I think he deserves for doing well at school, I bought the Lego Obi Wan Kanobi for him and was delighted when I got a complimentary gift wrap. So, I have one less gift to wrap. Kids are easier to buy for. They let you know what they like. And what a joy it is to see their faces when they unwrap those presents and see the things they wished for.
Don’t spend too much. And it depends on how many people you are buying gifts for. I was buying for four people so I set a budget for $200.00 but I tried not to spend more than $180.00. This year, I ended up spending around $160.00, this included cards, stamps and gift bags. I was determined not to spend more than $30.00 for a gift and look for the items that were on sale. The most I ended up spending on a gift this time around was $33.00 and change.
Don’t wait until the week of Christmas to go shopping. Too stressful. The parking lots of the shopping malls were full to capacity and the lines to get in and out were ridiculous. It took my husband about over twenty minutes just to turn the corner so that I could come and pick me up. Almost everything you want is gone. I went to get long johns for him and there weren’t any in his size. I promised myself that next year I will shop either during the last week in November or in the first week of December.
When you have done all of your shopping and gift-wrapping, you can breathe a sigh of relief and take a break. Then, start planning your Christmas dinner menu….