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I will always praise the Lord. With all my heart, I will praise the Lord – Psalm 34:1, 2
King David was always praising God. Every opportunity he got, he praised Him for who He is and what He does in our lives. Do we praise God? Do we take the time to praise Him for who is He is? Or do we spend most of our time asking Him for things?
Instead of asking God to bless our children, we should say, “Lord God, we want praise You for the many blessings You have poured out on our children. We want to praise You for Your faithfulness and goodness.”
When God answers our prayers, do we praise Him? David did. “I praise You, Lord, for answering my prayers. You have helped me and I will celebrate and thank You in song” (Psalm 28:6, 7).
Even when we are hurting, we ought to praise God. “Lord, even though I am feeling low today, I want to lift up Your name. You are my Rock and my refuge. I know that this sadness will not last because You will send joy my way. You will lift me out of this valley and place me back on top of the mountain. You will make my heart glad because of Your goodness and kindness. Lord, even when I don’t feel like singing, Your put songs in my heart. Even when I don’t feel like smiling, You put a smile on my face. Today, Lord, I praise Your name because You deserve to be praised. Honour and glory belong to You. I praise Your name because You are good. You have rescued me from all of my troubles.”
I find that when I am feeling down and I start to praise God and sing songs of praise, my spirits are lifted and the sadness vanishes. When we focus on God instead of our troubles, it makes a world of different. Let us get into the habit of petitioning God less and praising Him more.
The LORD has appeared of old to me, saying: “Yes, I have loved you with an everlastinglove;
Therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you – Jeremiah 31:3
Imagine you are a South Asian woman. Every day is a struggle and a challenge to survive. All you know is oppression from the day you were born until the day you die. As a girl child, your birth is not celebrated. You feel unwanted and are constantly reminded that you should have been born a boy. You are neglected, mistreated, abused or abandoned. As a young girl, you are abducted and forced into a life of prostitution which increases your risk of dying from AIDS.
If you are a widow, you are blamed for your husband’s death. His family and your community shun you and you are forced to fend for yourself. You are forced into an inhumane existence. You are completely alone, with no one to support or care for you. Life is too hard. There is no help. There is no hope. Only despair, misery and pain. What’s the use? Tens of thousands of widows end their lives just to end the pain.
If your dowry is not enough, your husband can douse you with kerosene and set you on fire. I have read horror stories of women being set on fire by their husbands or in-laws because of their dowries. A woman’s life is not worth anything. It’s hard to believe that there are countries where it’s not safe to be a woman. It can even be fatal. Women who survive infanticide because of gender are forced to live in a society which denies them rights to equality, respect, education, etc.
Being a woman in South Asia is unimaginable and unbearable for many and it is not surprising that the suicide rate is up to 21 times higher than the world’s average. Life for these women is a never-ending cycle of misery, hopelessness, degradation and rejection. These women need to know that there is hope. They need to know that there is a God who values them. To Him they are precious. They were fearfully and wonderfully made in His image.
Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you – Jeremiah 1:5
Imagine the joy these women will have when they hear about Jesus for the first time through Gospel for Asia’s ministries. Help them find hope and joy in a Savior who loved them so much that He gave His life for them so that one day they could spend eternity with Him. They need to know that they are worth a price far above rubies. They need to know that although there might have been silence in their homes on the days they were born, there was a joyful noise in heaven.
Women missionaries have been bringing the message of love and hope to the women of Asia. It is crucial that women minister to women because of the Asian culture. Women are more comfortable around other women. Gospel for Asia has trained, dedicated women missionaries who are willing to risk their lives to share the love of Jesus Christ with millions of women who still need to hear the Good News. These heroic women missionaries are willing to risk persecution, beatings and imprisonment because they are passionate about giving hope to women who have lived in despair for so long. They want to offer hurting women healing and encouragement. They want to bring the Savior’s light and love into their dark and uncaring world. Many Asian woman have had their lives transformed but there are still so many who are still waiting.
Weeping may endure for a night, But joycomes in the morning – Psalm 30:5
Help Gospel for Asia send more missionaries to those who are perishing without knowing about Jesus and His love. Find out how at this link. Help bring joy to a woman in Asia.
I don’t think there is anything particularly wrong in hitting a woman, though I don’t recommend you do it the same way that you hit a man. An openhanded slap is justified–if all other alternatives fail and there has been plenty of warning – Sean Connery
Just recently I was watching Turner Classic Movies (TCM) with my son and we saw the trailer for the movie, Too Late for Tears. There was a scene where Dan Duryea slapped Lizabeth Scott. I turned to him and I said, “A man should never hit a woman.” And he nodded in agreement. Then, I added, “And a woman should never hit a man.”
Some time ago, there was a commercial where a woman slapped her boyfriend because she thought he was watching an attractive woman as she walked by a parked car. It turned out that he was admiring the car. My manager objected to the commercial because he thought it was wrong to have the woman slap the man. I guess others agreed with him because when I saw that commercial again, the scene with the slap was no longer there.
I don’t think a man should ever hit a woman. In From Russia With Love, there was a scene with James Bond and Tatiana Romanova where he grabbed her and dragged her to her feet, his expression thunderous because he thought she was lying to him. He was gripping her tightly by the arms and when she told him that he was hurting her, he threatened that he would do worse. And he did by giving her a backhanded slap across the face, sending her reeling backwards. Thankfully, she lands on the bed. I read online that Sean Connery said he never hit or would ever hit a woman but that there are times when hitting one is justified. He said if a woman were hysterical or a b—, then it was okay for a man to hit her. “It’s not the worst thing to slap a woman now and then.” In his interview with Barbara Walters, Connery argued that if you’re having an argument and you’re trying to get the last word in and the woman won’t let you have it…then “it’s absolutely right.” I guess if he had a daughter, he wouldn’t have a problem with his son-in-law slapping her if she got out of hand.
Interestingly, Roger Moore who also played 007, revealed that he suffered domestic violence at the hands of two of his former wives. His first wife repeatedly punched and scratched him and also threw a teapot at him. She even punched the doctor who treated him for the slash on his hand. His second wife was also violent and attacked him after learning he had been unfaithful. It doesn’t come as a surprise that Roger Moore didn’t enjoy filming a particular scene in Man With the Golden Gun. It was of James Bond twisting the arm of Andrea Anders behind her back, and threatening to break it unless she told him what he wanted to know. Roger felt that Bond would have instead charmed the information out of her. I agree.
I read this article by Todd Dunn and thought I would share it. He gives 4 good reasons for a man to hit a woman and 5 bad reasons. Then, he makes it clear, that it is never justifiable for a man to hit a woman.
What about a woman hitting a man? Is it ok for her to do that? In my opinion, it is never right for any woman to hit a man. In the article, Women: hitting your man is not cute; it’s abuse, it was noted that pop culture gives the impression it is cute, funny, empowering or even sexy when women hit men. “The casual female on male violence that we accept on our screens is also sexist, as it presumes that women cannot do men any real harm. The size of bruises and the amount of blood spilled is not the only way one measures the effect of violence, as any man or woman who has been belittled or controlled or intimidated by their partner will tell you.”
I wonder how sympathetic people, particularly women, would be toward men who admit that they have been hit by their girlfriends or wives. Would they ask, “What did you do?” or assume, “you must have done something to deserve it.” Would an abused woman have to deal with this question or assumption? Hitting, slapping, punching, abuse is wrong, regardless of gender. There are other better and healthier ways to deal with conflict. When things start to get too heated, walk away or go and let off some steam in the gym or go for a walk or jog to cool your head. Don’t use each other as a punching bag.
I saw this quote on HealthyPlace: “A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn’t want for her daughter, nor allow any man to treat her in a way she could scold her son for.”
I think it should apply to men too. “A man should never invest in a relationship he wouldn’t want for his son nor allow any woman to treat him in a way he could scold his daughter for.” Both men and women deserve to be in loving and healthy relationships.
This morning my son and I read the story of the two blind men who were sitting by the side of the road when they heard that Jesus was passing by. Can you imagine, Jesus passing through the town where you lived? A crowd is flanking him. These two men realized that the opportunity of a lifetime is here and they were going to take full advantage of it. Who wouldn’t? So, they cried out to Jesus, “Have mercy on us, O Lord, Son of David.”
The crowd warned them to be quiet. Can you believe that? These poor men were blind. We don’t know for how long. They weren’t born blind. Could you imagine what it must have been like for them? One day their world was plunged into darkness. They couldn’t see the faces of their friends and families. They couldn’t see the trees swaying gently in the breeze or the clear blue sky or the sunlight that warmed their faces. How they must have longed to regain their sight. Put yourselves in their shoes. Imagine not seeingca the faces of your children or the beautiful flowers whose fragrance fills your nostrils. Imagine losing your sight and living the rest of your life in darkness. That would be the fate of these men, had Jesus not passed that way.
Being blind meant that these men couldn’t work. They had to beg for bread now. They were probably begging by the side of the road when they heard that Jesus was there. They had heard about Him and what He had done for others. They believed that He could help them too. So they cried out to Him in faith. And when the crowd tried to silence them, they cried out louder. They refused to keep quiet. How could they when the answer to their prayers was right there? In stubborn faith and boldness, they cried out, “Have mercy on us, O Lord, Son of David”.
I love the following three words, Jesus stood still. They had gotten His attention. Actually, they had His full attention now. He called them to Him and they went. How their hearts must have been pounding with excitement. Jesus had heard them and was calling them over to Him. Wow.
Jesus asked them kindly, “What do you want Me to do for you?” They said the words that were burning in their hearts, “Lord, that our eyes may be opened.” When Jesus looked at them, He was filled with compassion. Here were two men standing in front of Him, anxiously waiting for Him to give them their sight. They were trembling in anticipation of the miracle they knew that only He could perform. And then they felt the touch. They felt His fingers on their eyes and immediately they felt a difference. When He removed His hands, they opened their eyes. And the first thing they saw was Jesus’ face. What a sight to behold! Could you imagine seeing the Saviour’s wonderful face? Tears of joy must have poured down their faces as they stared at His smiling face. Joy filled their hearts and they gave their lives to Him that very instant. They followed Him.
When God places an opportunity within your reach, grab it. Don’t let others discourage you. Ignore the naysayers, the doubters and step out in faith. If you are hurting cry out to Jesus. He will hear you, stop and call you to Him. Don’t be silenced. Cry out.
He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He also will hear their cry and save them – Psalm 145:19
They still hope when they die, that their son probably will come and light their pyre. A son who breaks your legs, a son who hits you so hard that your skull breaks, a son who is willing to put cow dung in your mouth – and yet you want the same son to come and light your pyre. We need to break that mind-set also, somewhere – Winnie Singh, social activist
I was searching the Internet to see what I could find out about the quality of life for widows in India and was shocked. After losing their husbands, they are faced with a life of begging and destitution. Some of them are thrown out by family members. One widow was beaten by the sons she had raised when she asked them for money. In-laws refuse to help some widows while others can’t go back home because their parents are too poor to take them back.
Widows face discrimination and are dehumanized. They are called “it” and in some instances, they are referred to as “randi” which means prostitute in Punjabi. Some of them marry their brothers-in-law because being man’s property protects them from being raped.
A widow is blamed for her husband’s death. “You are widowed because you did something wrong in your previous life: that is the view in this predominantly Hindu culture,” explains Dr. Leelavathi Manasseh of the Bible Society. “So, whether a widow is from a rich or poor background, she faces blame, mistreatment and rejection by her family. Many are kicked out of their homes and left to fend for themselves and their children, leaving them in a desperate situation.” It’s worse when a woman loses her husband to AIDS and she tests positive for HIV. She is met with even more rejection and ridicule.
In Northern India, there is a place called, “Widow City.” It is the holy city of Vrindavan. Widows go there because they believe that if you die there, you would be freed from the cycle of birth and death and obtain moksha (emancipation). It is a place where these women can get away from a life of isolation and the society where they have no place or value. They are there because they were cast out families who don’t want to pay for them or by in-laws who don’t want them to inherit money or property. They are ostracised by their villages. They have lost their income. They are at the bottom rungs of society and are prevented from remarrying. In Vrindavan, they pray at the temples and beg. Other widows go there, as pilgrims, intending to dedicate their remaining years to serving the deities Krishna and Radha.
Life for a widow is hard. When their husbands were alive, they were protected but once they were gone, these poor women felt like orphans because they had no one to take care of them or help them. They were all alone. Perhaps this is why in the Bible, orphans and widows were always paired together because they were defenceless, society’s vulnerable. God wants us to plead for the widows. Defend their rights to a future filled with hope and dignity. God made it clear that He is “Against those who exploit wage earners and widows and orphans” (Malachi 3:5).
While society sees widows as a curse, God sees broken, abused, mistreated and unloved women whom He wants to enter into a loving relationship with. Their families don’t want them, but God wants them to be a part of His family.
Like so many widows, Netramani was cast out and left to fend for herself. “I was completely alone. … No one would give me work so I had to beg. … I had nothing to eat, nothing to wear. I was completely senseless and didn’t know anything. . .”
Watch Netramani’s heart-wrenching story and imagine either you or someone you know lying there, sick and helpless and no one stops to help.
…for I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in;I was naked and you clothed Me; I was sick and you visited Me; I was in prison and you came to Me.’
Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You drink?When did we see You a stranger and take You in, or naked and clothe You?Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?’And the King will answer and say to them, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me’ – Matthew 25:35-40.
June 23 is International Widows’ Day, a day when we step into the lives of widows and imagine the desperate places where they find themselves. Some commit suicide rather than face the shame. Others turn to prostitution. Mothers resort to rummaging through the trash in order to feed themselves and their children. These women don’t deserve to be like this. You can change this. Through your donations you will make it possible for local pastors to help widows in need, buy them sewing machines, farm animals, or much-needed supplies like winter blankets, water filters and other essentials. And with your generous gift, these women will have the opportunity to learn about Jesus and His love and compassion for them. To find out more about how you can help, visit http://www.gfa.org/women/widows/
As Christians, we need to demonstrate the love of Christ who reached out to those who were hurting, oppressed and ostracised. He loved the unloved and valued those whom society deemed worthless. Together let us plead for the widows. Let us take up their cause. They have the right to keep their homes, their income and their dignity. Let us contend with those who mistreat them. Let us speak for those who cannot speak for themselves. When we do good to others, we honour God.
A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation – Psalm 68:5.
“I look up to the mountains—
does my help come from there?
My help comes from the LORD,
who made heaven and earth!
He will not let you stumble;
the one who watches over you will not slumber.
Indeed, he who watches over Israel
never slumbers or sleeps.”Psalm 121:1–4
encouragement for today
The psalmist looks to the mountains, seemingly so strong and stable. Can his help come from there? No, his help comes from the One who created those mountains and the whole earth and heavens besides! When tempted to trust only in earthly things, go to the true Source of any power and solidity there is—God. The One who constantly watches over you and all of his people, without even a nanosecond of a pause, is eager to come to your aid.—Diane Eble, author of Abundant Gifts: A Daybook of Grace-Filled Devotions
This is so true. God is the One we turn to when we are hurting or need help. Countless times I have turned to Him when I am hurting or am troubled. He is always there, just ready to step in and offer a helping hand. He cares about us. We are His children. He is the loving Father who longs to pick us up when we fall or enfold us in His arms when we need comforting or the shoulder we cry on.
The psalmist wrote, “God is our shelter and strength, always ready to help in times in trouble” (Psalm 46:1). Peter encouraged us to cast all of our anxiety on God because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7).
There are times when God is the only One you can run to. He knows what is going on. You don’t have to tell Him. And He is in control. He is that Rock of strength you can cling to when you feel like you are sinking or unable to cope with what’s going on in your life or around you. Sometimes there is no other where to look but up. And remember that God is able and very willing to come to your aid. Just let go and let Him.
