If you are dating and you’re thinking, “He could be the one”, there are a few things you ought to seriously consider before you think about tying the knot.
Are you compatible? If he is a hardworking man and you are lazy, it won’t work. Right now you are living apart but when you get married and he ends up doing all of the cleaning up and you are not carrying your weight, your marital bliss will soon fizzle.
Can you cook? If he is a man who loves good food you have to know how to cook. A pastor I know married a woman who couldn’t cook. He taught her how to and she does all the cooking now. She must have had other qualities that he couldn’t live without.
Are you frugal? If he is a man who likes to save money, a wife who is a spendthrift will not work for him. When things get tight, he would like to know that you can also be frugal and understanding.
Are you hiding anything? Is there something about you or your family that he needs to know about? Do not enter into marriage without being totally honest.
Marriage is a very big step. Make sure you are ready to take it.
Notes to Women 