I first learned about this story about Bollywood actress Aishwarya Rai who silenced and stunned her critics when she showed up at Cannes, flaunting her post pregnancy body on Yahoo. I couldn’t believe that she was criticized for not losing weight fast enough like Victoria Beckham and Angelina Jolie. It should not be a matter of how fast you lose the baby weight but how you lose it. And why is having baby weight such a bad thing? Only shallow people would have a problem with it.
Imagine commentators blasted her for letting her fans down because of her weight gain. Many went as far as suggesting that the star has a ‘duty’ to her fans to regain her pre-pregnancy figure. One website posted a video of the star called ‘Aishwarya Rai’s shocking weight gain. The clip was accompanied by elephant sound effects and has been seen more than 500,000 times. The comments left after the video were unsympathetic and insensitive.
“She is a Bollywood actress and it is her duty to look good and fit,” the Daily Mail quoted one comment.
“She needs to learn from people like Victoria Beckham who are back to size zero weeks after their delivery,” another said.
This kind of attitude is explained by show business columnist Shobhaa De in the New York Daily News. Aishwarya is like a goddess. She is held up as the ideal of beauty and so there is an expectation on her to look perfect at all times.” Shobhaa makes a good point when she adds, “The role models being held up are Angelina Jolie and Victoria Beckham, but our body frames are different ?” we have wider hips and curves ?” so this whole business of looking desperately skinny two weeks after giving birth is a western import.”
Aishwarya saw no reason to go back to her pre-pregnancy state soon after the birth of her daughter. She wanted to enjoy motherhood and that is her right. No one should dictate to her how she should or should not look. She’s a mother now. She’s putting that role first. As some supporters stated, the focus should be on the baby not her weight. Aishwarya proves that she is not selfish, thinking only of herself and her looks. And as one smart person pointed out, “She is a real women looking after a baby. We should be concern for her health and happiness especially if she is nursing the baby. Not the Western belief of expecting people in the spot light to lose all weight in month. If she dieted what will happen to the baby’s diet,” one said.
Notes to Women applaud Aishwarya Rai for showing such grace under fire and for standing up to the critics. She is proud to be a mother and not ashamed of the weight gain. Aishwarya, congratulations on being a Mom and we wish you and your family well.
‘Haters don’t matter’
I’ve always said that haters are a drop in the ocean. There’s that much more love. Any kind of negativity in any case just doesn’t stick, it drops off and it doesn’t matter. People have given me so much love throughout my career, my life in the public eye, at every phase.
I’ve never endorsed size zero’
This is who I am. I am a mother. This can happen and it has happened with me and it’s fine (weight gain). I’ve never been the one who endorse size zero anyway. You guys speculated I was pregnant way before I actually was. It goes to show that I have lived real life in the public eye. That continues.
‘Only reality matters’
There are lot of people out there who recognise that, see that, and share that energy with me. And that’s what matters – reality